Anticipation vs. Reality
As unhealthy as this may sound, I sometimes wish I could be in a constant state of anticipation. The feeling of optimism and potential is intoxicating. Whereas when one is faced with the sometimes harsh realities of life, you’re often left with despair, pessimism or indifference. It can be as simple as anticipating the cool gifts you’re about to receive for Christmas, but the reality is that you’re now the proud owner of a three pairs of socks your aunt knit for you.
Stubbornness or even denial can be roadblocks to not accepting reality, no matter how clear it may be. I never want to let go of something when it felt so right to begin with. The best way to tackle the realities of life is to let go of what could’ve been, and find something else in life that brings the hope that helps give us purpose or meaning in life to continue moving forward.
